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Posted by COVU_A_327
05-26-2020 12:31 PM

hey, i didnt know the post was alive yet in the 2010’s even after the social networks era, the few yet big cyberwars, the waves and waves of shitty propaganda, the “politically correct” in everything

heck, at least dis is a relaxin' place to be.

I used facebook actively, but now i use it only to make calls and login in certain sites

tl, dr: here feels like internet should be

Posted by Cropstick
05-14-2020 08:40 PM

Hey there. I decided to write for the first time that I was, and am, lonely on Google only to find out about this thread.

I don’t know if I should find comfort in the idea that I’m not the only one having the idea to use such keywords on a search engine, but I’ve read a lot of the posts here and I want to say I feel for you all. I hope you guys don’t feel so lonely anymore and that you found good people to surround yourselves with. I sincerely wish you all the best there is out there.

I’ve got a lot of trouble meeting new people and always think of myself as a fool when I do so, because I feel like I don’t have anything to offer as a human being and that I’m not that interesting of a person.

Needless to say I’ve got less self-confidence than I’d like to admit, and I never dare making the first step to meet someone as a consequence of all this. I’ve got a couple friends here and there, but I don’t meet them as often as I’d like to.

Well here’s to that haha. I’ve never said this to anyone nor written it any where else. I feel like I needed to vent.

Posted by Perfect Avatar Zealot
05-04-2020 04:08 PM

Damn this thread is literally 16 years old!

Posted by Thar
05-04-2020 12:55 PM

NewVisitor wrote: Hi everyone. I just found out about this place and Iím a little bit surprised that no one has posted in 2020, especially with everyone extra isolated these days.

My life has not turned out as I hoped. I donít mind most of it but I am lonely. I wish I had a partner to go through life with. Someone who was there when I went to sleep and there when I woke up. Someone who liked me and I liked them back, even if it was not quite romantic, it would be nice to have someone to sit next to and put your head on their shoulder.

You know what I mean?


While I don’t exactly share the same sentiment, I do understand the loneliness. Not particularly for a romantic partner, but just for actual friends to hang out with and do stuff with in person.

Don’t worry, I’m sure you’ll find someone at some point.

the internet rebel wrote: Hello NewVisitor,

Sorry to hear you’re feeling lonely sometimes.

Let me tell you that there is that special somebody out there so long as you don’t give up the hope.

You’ve already identified what it is you’re after: a loyal partner you can share your life experiences with. Now break down what the three things you could do to achieve this objective are.

I’ll bet you can find three things that you could start working on tomorrow. If you can work on creating the life you want it to be instead of hoping it turns out the way you want to, you’ll find a world of endless opportunities.


Don’t listen to PrettyCoolGuy. You’re absolutely right.

Posted by The Dual-Wielded Alchemist
05-04-2020 06:25 AM

Damn, I just got smacked with wholesomeness on MvC. o_o

Posted by Butt Stallion
05-04-2020 06:07 AM

Also, to whomever might see this post:

I just want to say that it does get easier, just as it gets harder. Please, find whatever it is that gives you peace. Don’t be afraid to look for it, because you can find potential friends and loved ones anywhere tbh. And you can find things you do on your own to satisfy your own sense of self-worth, if that’s an issue. There is always a way, I promise you that.

Posted by the internet rebel
05-03-2020 05:29 PM

Hello NewVisitor,

Sorry to hear you’re feeling lonely sometimes.

Let me tell you that there is that special somebody out there so long as you don’t give up the hope.

You’ve already identified what it is you’re after: a loyal partner you can share your life experiences with. Now break down what the three things you could do to achieve this objective are.

I’ll bet you can find three things that you could start working on tomorrow. If you can work on creating the life you want it to be instead of hoping it turns out the way you want to, you’ll find a world of endless opportunities.

Posted by NewVisitor
04-14-2020 02:43 AM

Hi everyone. I just found out about this place and I’m a little bit surprised that no one has posted in 2020, especially with everyone extra isolated these days.

My life has not turned out as I hoped. I don’t mind most of it but I am lonely. I wish I had a partner to go through life with. Someone who was there when I went to sleep and there when I woke up. Someone who liked me and I liked them back, even if it was not quite romantic, it would be nice to have someone to sit next to and put your head on their shoulder.

You know what I mean?

Posted by the internet rebel
09-10-2019 08:52 AM

Rin Peruna wrote:
Hey, idk how you’ll take this but I want to thank you for a lot even though you just replied 3 posts to me. Remember when someone anonymous went on here and said they got banned from an online community and that they were extremely lonely in spring 2016? That kid was me and I was genuinely upset and lonely because said community was the only way I could interact with anyone, considering how i was IRL.

Luckily those times are gone now and I don’t feel loneliness anymore, i’m social IRL etc, but I want to thank you for those words of encouragement back then.




Hello Rin,

I do indeed remember you, but there’s no need to thank me for anything. I’m just happy to hear that you’re in a much better place these days!

Because that’s what it’s all about. You felt so lonely back then and couldn’t envisage a brighter future, yet you came through this and made your life even better than you thought it could ever be.

And believe me, your comment is going to have far more impact than anything I could ever say because you’re living proof that things can and will get better. I just hope people get to read this and feel inspired by your journey. Congratulations, buddy, I wish you lots more happiness in your life moving forwards!

Edited 09-10-2019 08:53 AM by the internet rebel
Posted by Rin Peruna
09-08-2019 03:42 PM

the internet rebel wrote: Strong post to topic ratio...

Methinks you are simply a shill for Castbox. I know... you’ll probably come out and say you are only trying to help and have no affiliation with Castbox. Shills do as shills do. But seriously now, that was one of the most unashamed pitches I think that I’ve ever read.

Still, if it helps just one person in their quest to feel less lonely, then I guess it is worth it.


Hey, idk how you’ll take this but I want to thank you for a lot even though you just replied 3 posts to me. Remember when someone anonymous went on here and said they got banned from an online community and that they were extremely lonely in spring 2016? That kid was me and I was genuinely upset and lonely because said community was the only way I could interact with anyone, considering how i was IRL.

Luckily those times are gone now and I don’t feel loneliness anymore, i’m social IRL etc, but I want to thank you for those words of encouragement back then.

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