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Posted by the internet rebel
03-13-2019 07:03 AM

Thank you for your kind words, Telstar. Just know that I’m always here to chat if you need... :-)

Posted by Telstar
03-12-2019 12:04 PM

the internet rebel wrote: Hi Telstar,

First off, let me ask you, beg you actually, not to end it all. You’ve got so much more to live for, and what you are going through now is only temporary. It’s a pain that you can, and will, get through - and though it’s hard to see now - it’s something that will help you live a happier and more fulfilled life in the future.

You know it’s always tough when we see people we care about or think highly of move on with their lives. Especially when we don’t know what the real reasons why they moved on were. We remember the good times and we just can’t figure out why they would throw that all away.

But in the end, the only answer is that we must move on, just as they have, and accept that sometimes in life people come and go for a reason. Sure, it can be a bitter pill to swallow, but everybody out there has had to do it at one time or another, so please know that you’re not alone in this regard.

I know it sucks not to have anyone to say good morning to, but please believe me that things can change. What you need to do first is to work on moving on from your loss. This can take time, and don’t feel bad if it does - it’s important not to be too hard on yourself.

You know I’ve said this a million times on here before but it’s true: we’re blessed in this day and age to have the internet and it’s a perfect medium for you to reach out and connect with people who may or may not be in the same boat as you.

Try and see if you can connect with somebody, be that online or locally, and take things from there. Trust in the process. Know that so long as you are committed to never giving up, things can and will get better gradually. And soon, one day, you’ll feel so different to how you’re feeling right now you’ll be so glad you made the effort.

But whatever you do, don’t give up. If you need to talk about it feel free to write back on here. The world isn’t as dark a place as you think it is. I promise you there is always, always a light at the end of the tunnel.



thank you so much for responding.
i truly appreciate that. youíre an incredibly nice person, and i hope the world is kind to you.
thank you.

Posted by Zero Beat
03-11-2019 03:25 PM

Oh my gosh!! MVC is back up??? Last time I checked it was gone, wtf happened!?!?

Edited 03-11-2019 03:25 PM by Zero Beat
Posted by the internet rebel
03-11-2019 04:54 AM

Hi Telstar,

First off, let me ask you, beg you actually, not to end it all. You’ve got so much more to live for, and what you are going through now is only temporary. It’s a pain that you can, and will, get through - and though it’s hard to see now - it’s something that will help you live a happier and more fulfilled life in the future.

You know it’s always tough when we see people we care about or think highly of move on with their lives. Especially when we don’t know what the real reasons why they moved on were. We remember the good times and we just can’t figure out why they would throw that all away.

But in the end, the only answer is that we must move on, just as they have, and accept that sometimes in life people come and go for a reason. Sure, it can be a bitter pill to swallow, but everybody out there has had to do it at one time or another, so please know that you’re not alone in this regard.

I know it sucks not to have anyone to say good morning to, but please believe me that things can change. What you need to do first is to work on moving on from your loss. This can take time, and don’t feel bad if it does - it’s important not to be too hard on yourself.

You know I’ve said this a million times on here before but it’s true: we’re blessed in this day and age to have the internet and it’s a perfect medium for you to reach out and connect with people who may or may not be in the same boat as you.

Try and see if you can connect with somebody, be that online or locally, and take things from there. Trust in the process. Know that so long as you are committed to never giving up, things can and will get better gradually. And soon, one day, you’ll feel so different to how you’re feeling right now you’ll be so glad you made the effort.

But whatever you do, don’t give up. If you need to talk about it feel free to write back on here. The world isn’t as dark a place as you think it is. I promise you there is always, always a light at the end of the tunnel.

Posted by Telstar
03-10-2019 02:18 PM

several months ago, i lost a person that was very significant to me. he just eventually lost all interest in me and disappeared. i donít know how to move on. i was so dependent on him. i know thatís not necessarily a good thing but i have no idea what to do anymore. i wake up and i have no one to say good morning to. i have no one to ask me if iíve eaten yet. i have no one who wants to know why iím upset. there is no one out there who wants to make me happy anymore and the thought of that makes me want to kill myself. i know this is such a minor first world problem but i have never felt worse in my life.

and he doesnít even care about me. heís unbothered and talking to new, different people. he moved on with his life and i cant do the same. i wish i was as significant to him as he was to me.
it gets harder each day to not end it all

Posted by gorillaz
03-10-2019 02:03 PM

is anyone still here?

Posted by Guess3390
03-06-2019 06:47 PM

Hey....

Its been awhile...

Posted by Noorie
03-06-2019 11:14 AM

Is anyone still there...!!

Posted by Guess3390
03-03-2019 01:33 PM

Me too

Posted by the internet rebel
02-18-2019 04:31 AM

On the contrary, the old ones provide the greatest lesson on your quest forwards. A veritable blessing.

Learn the lessons yet forget the people who won’t let you change and focus on the positive changes you have already made up until this point. Good times are just around the corner.

Nobody can take away your pain, so don’t let anyone take away your happiness...

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