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[Reply] #44,961
02-07-2019 10:10 PM
want2die_but_have_no_drive
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I am wasting away as a person. I have no friends. I have no significant other. I have a mother and father who have high hopes in me but have no idea what I think about on a day to day basis. I go to university, but the only thing on my mind is ending it all. Day in, and day out. I think of nothing but ceasing existence. Eternal slumber. I cannot bring myself to do it, for reasons unknown. I’m to selfish to keep myself alive out of consideration for my parents. Perhaps it is laziness. I am so pathetically unmotivated. I recognize that i need help, a therapist, someone meaningful that will help me, but I do nothing about it. Will someone help me? I don’t even know what I need. I am full of overpowering sadness and pain, yet all I feel is emptiness and gray. Loneliness.

[Reply] #44,962
02-12-2019 04:29 AM
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want2die_but_have_no_drive wrote: I am wasting away as a person. I have no friends. I have no significant other. I have a mother and father who have high hopes in me but have no idea what I think about on a day to day basis. I go to university, but the only thing on my mind is ending it all. Day in, and day out. I think of nothing but ceasing existence. Eternal slumber. I cannot bring myself to do it, for reasons unknown. I’m to selfish to keep myself alive out of consideration for my parents. Perhaps it is laziness. I am so pathetically unmotivated. I recognize that i need help, a therapist, someone meaningful that will help me, but I do nothing about it. Will someone help me? I don’t even know what I need. I am full of overpowering sadness and pain, yet all I feel is emptiness and gray. Loneliness.





Hi,

First things first: whatever you do, don’t end it all. You’re going through a rough patch right now, and whilst you cannot see the light at the end of the tunnel please know that it is there nevertheless.

What’s also important to know is that there are people out there who want to help you. Where are you based? A little more information and I may well be able to help you out...

The bottom line is you don’t deserve to feel so empty and lonely and please know that you can turn it all around if you want. It’s not going to be easy, but it is going to be worth it.

[Reply] #44,963
02-16-2019 01:02 AM
Eleanor Rigby
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Wow. So this is what it has come to. Typing ďI am lonelyĒ into the Google search bar and arriving here. Historic. Cultural. Zeitgeist. Doesnít make me feel better. I donít know what it makes me feel. It is just hard. I am changing. I am growing. I am learning and becoming a better person. I know I am. So the people I met up until this point have only been able to take me this far. Who will go with me on the next stretch? Do I have to go alone? I am going alone now and I donít like it anymore. I like my alone time, sure. But I want it to be voluntary. Self-imposed. I donít want to be lonely. People donít let you change and that is bullshit. You are not your past. You are not your mistakes. If you want to change you have to get all new friends? All new people? Thatís what it seems like to me. The old ones will only continue to remind you of your mistakes.

[Reply] #44,964
02-18-2019 04:31 AM
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On the contrary, the old ones provide the greatest lesson on your quest forwards. A veritable blessing.

Learn the lessons yet forget the people who won’t let you change and focus on the positive changes you have already made up until this point. Good times are just around the corner.

Nobody can take away your pain, so don’t let anyone take away your happiness...

[Reply] #44,965
03-03-2019 01:33 PM
Guess3390
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Me too

[Reply] #44,966
03-06-2019 11:14 AM
Noorie
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Is anyone still there...!!

[Reply] #44,967
03-06-2019 06:47 PM
Guess3390
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Hey....

Its been awhile...

[Reply] #44,968
03-10-2019 02:03 PM
gorillaz
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is anyone still here?

[Reply] #44,969
03-10-2019 02:18 PM
Telstar
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several months ago, i lost a person that was very significant to me. he just eventually lost all interest in me and disappeared. i donít know how to move on. i was so dependent on him. i know thatís not necessarily a good thing but i have no idea what to do anymore. i wake up and i have no one to say good morning to. i have no one to ask me if iíve eaten yet. i have no one who wants to know why iím upset. there is no one out there who wants to make me happy anymore and the thought of that makes me want to kill myself. i know this is such a minor first world problem but i have never felt worse in my life.

and he doesnít even care about me. heís unbothered and talking to new, different people. he moved on with his life and i cant do the same. i wish i was as significant to him as he was to me.
it gets harder each day to not end it all

[Reply] #44,970
03-11-2019 04:54 AM
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Hi Telstar,

First off, let me ask you, beg you actually, not to end it all. You’ve got so much more to live for, and what you are going through now is only temporary. It’s a pain that you can, and will, get through - and though it’s hard to see now - it’s something that will help you live a happier and more fulfilled life in the future.

You know it’s always tough when we see people we care about or think highly of move on with their lives. Especially when we don’t know what the real reasons why they moved on were. We remember the good times and we just can’t figure out why they would throw that all away.

But in the end, the only answer is that we must move on, just as they have, and accept that sometimes in life people come and go for a reason. Sure, it can be a bitter pill to swallow, but everybody out there has had to do it at one time or another, so please know that you’re not alone in this regard.

I know it sucks not to have anyone to say good morning to, but please believe me that things can change. What you need to do first is to work on moving on from your loss. This can take time, and don’t feel bad if it does - it’s important not to be too hard on yourself.

You know I’ve said this a million times on here before but it’s true: we’re blessed in this day and age to have the internet and it’s a perfect medium for you to reach out and connect with people who may or may not be in the same boat as you.

Try and see if you can connect with somebody, be that online or locally, and take things from there. Trust in the process. Know that so long as you are committed to never giving up, things can and will get better gradually. And soon, one day, you’ll feel so different to how you’re feeling right now you’ll be so glad you made the effort.

But whatever you do, don’t give up. If you need to talk about it feel free to write back on here. The world isn’t as dark a place as you think it is. I promise you there is always, always a light at the end of the tunnel.

[Reply] #44,971
03-11-2019 03:25 PM
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Oh my gosh!! MVC is back up??? Last time I checked it was gone, wtf happened!?!?


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[Reply] #44,972
03-12-2019 12:04 PM
Telstar
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the internet rebel wrote: Hi Telstar,

First off, let me ask you, beg you actually, not to end it all. You’ve got so much more to live for, and what you are going through now is only temporary. It’s a pain that you can, and will, get through - and though it’s hard to see now - it’s something that will help you live a happier and more fulfilled life in the future.

You know it’s always tough when we see people we care about or think highly of move on with their lives. Especially when we don’t know what the real reasons why they moved on were. We remember the good times and we just can’t figure out why they would throw that all away.

But in the end, the only answer is that we must move on, just as they have, and accept that sometimes in life people come and go for a reason. Sure, it can be a bitter pill to swallow, but everybody out there has had to do it at one time or another, so please know that you’re not alone in this regard.

I know it sucks not to have anyone to say good morning to, but please believe me that things can change. What you need to do first is to work on moving on from your loss. This can take time, and don’t feel bad if it does - it’s important not to be too hard on yourself.

You know I’ve said this a million times on here before but it’s true: we’re blessed in this day and age to have the internet and it’s a perfect medium for you to reach out and connect with people who may or may not be in the same boat as you.

Try and see if you can connect with somebody, be that online or locally, and take things from there. Trust in the process. Know that so long as you are committed to never giving up, things can and will get better gradually. And soon, one day, you’ll feel so different to how you’re feeling right now you’ll be so glad you made the effort.

But whatever you do, don’t give up. If you need to talk about it feel free to write back on here. The world isn’t as dark a place as you think it is. I promise you there is always, always a light at the end of the tunnel.



thank you so much for responding.
i truly appreciate that. youíre an incredibly nice person, and i hope the world is kind to you.
thank you.

[Reply] #44,973
03-13-2019 07:03 AM
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Thank you for your kind words, Telstar. Just know that I’m always here to chat if you need... :-)

[Reply] #44,974
04-15-2019 02:52 PM
guestguestguest
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I am lonely. I really have no one to talk to. Everyone thinks because people hit me up on social media that everyone loves me. In reality, they don’t.most of the people that do, have either a just tried to sleep with me multiple times, or they just want my dad’s money, which i found out after i was impregnated, in a relationship, when i was told they couldn’t have kids anymore. I thought i made a connection with someone, but no, they fucking hate me too. Everyone hates me, i love me, and i am trying so hard. I really just want to leave and not talk to anyone anymore. I really have no best friend, and all of my relationships are just there, really no depth or meaning, because i don’t want hurt. Everytime i let someone in they fucking destroy me. Or i feel like everyone complaining about people talking on line, are getting on to me. They can post about not fucking their boyfriend, or shit talkers, but i can’t go on a rant that doesn’t give names about how i feel. just whatever, i just need to get off line, and i just need to go find something for me, because this life isn’t and i thought i was on the right track, but i guess not, and i guess that nothing i do matters to anyone besides my mom, and she even just wants to live her own life.................

[Reply] #44,975
04-17-2019 10:44 AM
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Hi,

I’m sorry to hear that you feel this way. You seem like a nice person who is clearly surrounded by not-so-nice people. It cannot be a pleasant situation to be in, and I feel for you.

But please know this: not everyone hates you. All that has happened here is that the people you have tried to get close to weren’t the right sort of people. Sometimes in life we can spend years - decades even - being attracted to the wrong kinds of people until one day we realise that these people are no good for us. That’s when we’ve got to broaden our horizons... consider things we would have never considered before, and above all else, not let things get us down.

The second thing I’d like to say is that social media sucks. Let’s look at this for a minute: people are putting their whole lives up on sketchy websites forever mired in controversy. Do you honestly believe that people who really have things going on their lives have the time to even post half of this inane crap? You know what you need to do: get yourself off social media and into the real world.

Try reaching out to real people who’ve got real values and who don’t shit talk at every opportunity and who won’t judge you, who will care for you, who will be your best friend and who will love you.

I’m telling you now that these people exist. Whether or not you want to believe me doesn’t change that fact. The only question is do you want to find them or are you better off feeling sad?

[Reply] #44,976
04-17-2019 08:43 PM
there is nothing left
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This pain? No, it’s different. Loneliness. Yes. Loneliness.

'Loneliness? I don’t understand.'

You don’t want to be by yourself, correct? We are many but you are alone. You hate it don’t you?

'That is what it is to be lonely? That is what your mind is. It is what fills your soul. You are that sorrow.'

[Reply] #44,977
04-22-2019 03:53 AM
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Sorry, but I can’t just sit by and let you type out such blatant mistruths:

You are not that pain. You are not that sorrow. That’s just a trick that your mind is playing on you to make you believe that.

You need to move away from all that. Your thoughts and your feelings do not define you. You need to start trying to change the cycle - when you find yourself feeling lonely and sorrowful then try something different. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and expecting a different result.

Your mind is a tool that you control, not the other way around. Learn how to use it, to be its master. Don’t let it call the shots.

Now I’m not saying that’s going to be easy, but I am saying that’s the way it’s got to be if you want to find your peace. Step by step, day by day, you can get there.

And your life is going to be all the better for it.

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