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[Reply] #44,941
08-22-2018 03:42 AM
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Brilliantly put.

[Reply] #44,942
09-06-2018 09:37 PM
Skat
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I just stumbled upon a mention of this site, and Iím pleasantly surprised itís still up from 2004. Couldnít help drowning an hour in some of its conversations - amazing how many nice people are (digitally) around. I wish I knew about this place earlier. Now, at least, I know weíre lonely together smiley

[Reply] #44,943
09-14-2018 11:17 PM
lonesomemode
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i have no friends at all. it is true, don’t say it is not.

[Reply] #44,944
09-15-2018 10:26 AM
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I’ll be your friend. But if you don’t want me to just to prove your point, then it’s your choice to have no friends at all. Don’t say it is not.

[Reply] #44,945
09-25-2018 06:02 AM
tokyoloner
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What a brilliant meme.

[Reply] #44,946
09-28-2018 08:38 PM
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Ahhh I remember the old days


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[Reply] #44,947
10-28-2018 10:21 PM
iamisolation
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i feel a little lot alone

[Reply] #44,948
12-09-2018 07:55 PM
appleluxx
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husband cheated on me...for 7 months 3 months after we got married. I forgave him but he’s never home. He’s always working or at the gym or playing games or with the guys. I sleep (literally, snooze) next to him every night. That’s pretty much it. In total I spend about 5-6 hours with him every week (composed of 7 days). To make it worse my car broke down so I can’t even go out to see something nice...clouds or whatever. He’s too busy to take me out anywhere...he drops me off at work in the mornings and a co-worker brings me back home since I live so close to work. I go days without ever going outside. Eventually, Instagram, Facebook and books get tiring. Sometimes I stare at the window or have intense conversation with my dog (lol). I have friends but none close enough I can talk to about this. Litt typed “I’m so lonely” on Google and this popped up.

[Reply] #44,949
12-10-2018 11:17 PM
lil oaky
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appleluxx wrote: husband cheated on me...for 7 months 3 months after we got married. I forgave him but he’s never home. He’s always working or at the gym or playing games or with the guys. I sleep (literally, snooze) next to him every night. That’s pretty much it. In total I spend about 5-6 hours with him every week (composed of 7 days). To make it worse my car broke down so I can’t even go out to see something nice...clouds or whatever. He’s too busy to take me out anywhere...he drops me off at work in the mornings and a co-worker brings me back home since I live so close to work. I go days without ever going outside. Eventually, Instagram, Facebook and books get tiring. Sometimes I stare at the window or have intense conversation with my dog (lol). I have friends but none close enough I can talk to about this. Litt typed “I’m so lonely” on Google and this popped up.



you should take more walks. I obviously don’t know where you live or what the full situation is, but walking is good for the body and the mind

as for your husband, well it is not uncommon for men, especially married men, to be really busy with their work. And theres nothing wrong with the gym. however, combine the two (and “going out with the guys”wink, and that can take up most of a persons time

That being said, he should make time for you. If he really is cheating on you, then something is wrong with the relationship here. now, remember this: people do, what they can. and if they can, they will do what they want. at any given time. so, what do you do? sure, you can try to make it so he “can’t” do what he wants ie by being forceful, or just straight not give a fuck with the “no man is going to affect my happiness”, but...why do that, when you can make it so he wants you. this man has options; you gotta be the option he wants to come home to at night

one way or another, you gotta up your game appleluxx.

[Reply] #44,950
12-10-2018 11:20 PM
oh and applelux
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i forgot to state the obvious: there is a good chance, that your husband is simply very, very tired after a week of work, the gym, etc. he should still up his game, but...you gotta give the man some incentive girl

[Reply] #44,951
12-11-2018 02:04 AM
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appleluxx wrote: husband cheated on me...for 7 months 3 months after we got married. I forgave him but he’s never home. He’s always working or at the gym or playing games or with the guys. I sleep (literally, snooze) next to him every night. That’s pretty much it. In total I spend about 5-6 hours with him every week (composed of 7 days). To make it worse my car broke down so I can’t even go out to see something nice...clouds or whatever. He’s too busy to take me out anywhere...he drops me off at work in the mornings and a co-worker brings me back home since I live so close to work. I go days without ever going outside. Eventually, Instagram, Facebook and books get tiring. Sometimes I stare at the window or have intense conversation with my dog (lol). I have friends but none close enough I can talk to about this. Litt typed “I’m so lonely” on Google and this popped up.





Hi appleluxx,

I’m really sorry to hear about your predicament. It sounds like you are going through a bit of a boring patch at the minute, but please know that things can, and will, change for the better.

At the end of the day, you have to put together a daily routine/strategy which is going to pull you out of this lull. Only you have the power to do it. You are never going to find it on social media, so don’t even go there. But try incorporating some new things in your life, mix it up. Whether that be a new hobby, a side earner, new friends, exercise, there’s literally a million things you can choose from.

Sure, it might seem quite daunting at first, but keep plugging away and good things will happen. The point is you can always be filling those moments of boredom with something worthwhile.

With that being said, your husband does have a duty - especially after cheating on you after 3 months - to be making more of an effort. Working and going to the gym is understandable, but playing games and hanging out with the guys isn’t, so you need to have a talk with him, but WITHOUT bringing up his infidelity. Try and find some common ground and see if you can start off by doing some new things together, even if it is only for half an hour each week, and take things from there. Don’t be disheartened if he doesn’t go for it right away. Yes, he should be making a lot more effort, but as I say, you’ve got to focus on yourself and getting rid of that bored state right now. Find some happiness inside yourself and then you’ll see that slowly but surely everything will start falling into place.

And keep us posted with how you get on.

[Reply] #44,952
12-11-2018 01:18 PM
Xenu
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Uggggh.

I interviewed for a job I really wanted yesterday and am almost positive I won’t get an offer.

Feel like crap today.

Any words of wisdom or encouragement appreciated.

Thank you.

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12-13-2018 02:24 PM
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Hi Xenu,

The most liberating thing I can tell you is that this crappy feeling you’re feeling right now is only fleeting. It won’t last forever.

You got excited about a job interview, you were probably even running scenarios through your mind about what it would be like working for this firm, but the interview didn’t turn out nearly the way you had expected.

We’ve all been there, mate. I’m not sure that’s any consolation, but it is a fact of life that will either make you or break you.

Let me tell you that a job 1000x better than the one you just interviewed for is out there, ready and waiting for you. So you are faced with 2 choices.

Either:

a) Never give up and keep plugging away in search of that perfect job. Hone your approach to interviews. Understand that every rejection is bringing you one step closer to that perfect job.


b) Sit around and feel crappy about that one interview that didn’t go as planned.

It’s your choice at the end of the day, but any words of wisdom would surely be to get back up, dust yourself off and choose option a.

[Reply] #44,954
01-08-2019 12:06 PM
Help please
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I typed “I am lonely ", found a Wikipedia page about it. Thought this thread must be closed by now. But here it is. I just don’t understand why has it become so unpopular? There’s a pageview analysis tool for wikipeda, which tells how many times an article has been viewed. Average views per day for “i am lonely will anyone speak to me” is less than 30.

That makes me feel even more lonely. Why are recent posts made at a gap of weeks... can somebody summarize the history of this thread. I’m dying alone and I don’t want to feel that way.

Why do I even post here? How does the world work?

Is it useless?

[Reply] #44,955
01-08-2019 09:17 PM
this thread started
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Help please wrote: I typed “I am lonely ", found a Wikipedia page about it. Thought this thread must be closed by now. But here it is. I just don’t understand why has it become so unpopular? There’s a pageview analysis tool for wikipeda, which tells how many times an article has been viewed. Average views per day for “i am lonely will anyone speak to me” is less than 30.

That makes me feel even more lonely. Why are recent posts made at a gap of weeks... can somebody summarize the history of this thread. I’m dying alone and I don’t want to feel that way.

Why do I even post here? How does the world work?

Is it useless?



roughly a decade and a half ago. it has been active throughout many eras of this site. this site, however, was down for a period of roughly 14 months, from december 2016, t0 february 2018. the user base, had already changed dramatically prior to the shutdown

but, alas, this thread is still here. there are still people here, still people to talk to

[Reply] #44,956
01-09-2019 09:57 AM
History
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Posting in a historic thread

[Reply] #44,957
01-21-2019 02:17 AM
Yatagarasu
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It’s kind of odd, how this is up for such a long while. Heh.

[Reply] #44,958
01-23-2019 07:15 AM
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Help please wrote: I typed “I am lonely ", found a Wikipedia page about it. Thought this thread must be closed by now. But here it is. I just don’t understand why has it become so unpopular? There’s a pageview analysis tool for wikipeda, which tells how many times an article has been viewed. Average views per day for “i am lonely will anyone speak to me” is less than 30.

That makes me feel even more lonely. Why are recent posts made at a gap of weeks... can somebody summarize the history of this thread. I’m dying alone and I don’t want to feel that way.

Why do I even post here? How does the world work?

Is it useless?




I was here from the very beginning and I can tell you that summarising the history of this thread is not going to be easy nor quick. Here’s an idea: why don’t you spend some time reading it yourself and arrive at your own conclusions?

As for asking why are recent posts made at a gap of weeks - how on earth is anybody supposed to know the answer to that? Please don’t get so hung up on such trivial things...

I’m sorry that you feel that you are dying alone, but it doesn’t have to be that way, so if you want to ask half-decent questions or would like to get something off your chest then feel free. I’m always willing to lend an ear and help out in any way that I can...

[Reply] #44,959
01-28-2019 08:53 PM
We are not living life
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We are emotionally lobotomizing ourselves. And this Dying World surrounded by Darkness we all search for a spark. They looked high and low thus expanding our Horizons. if I went to school with a hundred people in my class I probably know all 100 of them. And if I had 10 friends that would mean that including myself 89% are not my friends. However if I had 300 people in my class I so only had 10 friends 96. 5% would not be my friends. That’s I would feel even more lonely than I already did. Why? The playing field in which that I exist on has been expanded thus allowing more players. In doing so that means that I am least likely to succeed, I am least likely to be noticed, I am least likely to have strong interpersonal relationships oh, and I would feel alone. And this is not looking at any of their extenuating factors socioeconomics excetera excetera this is just a representation of friends and social success. Now introduce the internet....

We already felt alone when it came out because of the above reason. A place where there are millions, at the time probably thousands, tens of thousands, hundreds of thousands depending on what year you decided to log on. And you wonder why you feel even more alone than you already did. Cuz you threw yourself out into a sea of fish that everyone wants to be caught they’re all fighting for that hook. You’re not even playing on your home field you’re playing virtual reality on the f****** field in Argentina and you wonder why your life means nothing. We wonder why you don’t have that spark you don’t have that light it’s because every time you thought you saw that light you thought there might be something better out there and moved on to the next thing because you are view of the world was skewed. If you really don’t want to be alone anymore, or anybody on this thread for that matter, we have to figure out a trust each other again oh, we have to figure out how to see the imperfections in the Perfections together, we have to be understanding, we are all different, but we all must not forget one thing how much you are very much the same. And that as because we’re all looking for the light in the dark, if you’ll hold while we’re broken, to not feel alone, to feel like someone understands what it’s like, when no one can hear you scream, and for the place that we call home that we don’t even know where it is. So I implore you be nice to the clerk’s the gas station, hold the door open for the person that you dislike, tell the person that walked by that you like their shoes if you do, when you see someone that looks at you with fire behind their eyes, and you feel the fire seap out of your own talk to them even if they don’t talk to you first. Take the leaps to not be alone is being alone is a terrible thing. And the only one thing all humans are afraid of in the end. don’t get lost counting the stars and all you had to do is focus on the moon, and don’t let your anxiety control you. If everything was perfect, what would happen, Would anything happen?

[Reply] #44,960
01-31-2019 12:02 AM
emptythoughts
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Iím lonely

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